In Barcelona, there are many festivals and concerts, so many holidays as it’s a very religious city. So, before I venture out, I will need to empty my bladder (it’s very weak and I need to make sure there is a loo nearby!) I will also at some point, quite quickly, need to sit down. …
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Chapter 3.1 The Next emotional Roller-coaster
Chapter 3.1 The Next emotional Rollercoaster I went to two different providers for advice and a consultation as it’s a big step to start having a foreign mix inside of your body. The first wasn’t satisfactory for me as I was given lots of information, leaflets and narrative and was asked to read and to …
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Chapter 3 A new Beginning
Time has passed and I have remained in Barcelona. I won’t lie, it has been very difficult, emotionally, but the support I have received has been unbelievable. I am still in the same apartment, but the only difference now, is that I am single and live alone. I am happy. I never regret things that …
Chapter 2.8 The Finale
Divorces are never easy and there will always be hiccups along the way. I was prepared to be very civil and I think I was but when I feel like I am being taken advantage of, this feeling then changes. My actions also change. And this is what happened. As everything is dealt with through …
Chapter 2.7 Decision Made
OK so I have made a decision. I am staying and I’m going to make it work out here. I’ll get a good job and I AM GOING TO GET MY STUFF BACK. So, as the divorce is now in motion, I contact him less and less because everything is done through the solicitor and …
Chapter 2.6 The divorce proceedings start
A little time has passed, and things are far from normal. As agreed, we have met a couple of times, but for what? The more I see him the more certain I am I don’t want to make this work. He can’t see a reason to apologise STILL and then calmly says to me, as …
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Chapter 2.5 Poppy leaves….
I am packing my things and also being watched. The father is trying to be discreet, but I know that the reason they extended their flight was to make sure I didn’t give him a hard time. The quicker I leave the better. So in the day, he is at work and I am packing …
Chapter 2.4 My MS is Fake
It has now become more and more clear that the marriage is over, but my parents are still fighting as they knew nothing about it, and they want to help as much as they can. Like I said, I’m not one to air my dirty laundry so although we had hit rock bottom, I wasn’t …
Chapter 2.3 The Parents….
They come out around a month after we fly back, and they stay in a hotel. Possible reasons being, they don’t want to interfere? We’re sleeping in separate rooms, or they don’t want to get in the way. I come from a very amicable and respected background so on the first night both families go …
Chapter 2.2 “once you tell a lie, all your truths become questionable”
So, the time has come for me to fly back to Barcelona. I have thrown everybody’s world upside down and nobody knows the outcome (I think they know). I can only hope it works but I can’t make somebody want me. He has said he has ended the affair, but I don’t believe him. “once …
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Miss UKIndia in Barcelona 